How to Quit Your Quit
I want you to be free from the strongholds and mindsets that are holding you back. You have a mission to say "yes" to bringing life to others and it is unique to you.
I need you to stop quitting. Quit being okay with plan B. You are creating your own obstacles. Isn't it time to quit your quit?
Quit lying about your capabilities
Quit the can’t
Quit quitting after the loss
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Show Notes: How to Quit Your Quit
So today we're going to talk about something that might feel like I am and twisting your arm or poking the bear, or kind of twisting that little knife that might be in the back of your back already. Um, maybe the language somebody else's used over you or spoken to you, but I'm not doing it. To create stagnancy.
I'm not doing it out of a place to keep you stuck. I'm not trying to put you in a box. If anything, I want to break all of that free. I want you to become free and I want these strongholds, these limiting beliefs, these mindsets, these struggles, these back and forth with yourself and with others. To stop in its tracks, because I believe you have a mission, a very massive mission, a great commission in fact, to say yes to ultimately bringing life to others.
And that's going to be in the way that is uniquely you, because only you have this thumbprint only, you have the. Only you have this mindset or this history or this past, both in trials and tribulations. And so I need you to stop doing the thing that we're going to talk about today and need you to stop quitting.
I need you to stop being okay with plan B, and this is how you're going to do it because I'm going to give you the ways to do it. Seven ways to quit your quit. Are you ready for this number one? Quit complaining. You are creating your own roadblocks with your language. We speak life, or we speak death from our tongue.
It's biblical. And yet you're still okay with putting the roadblocks up saying the words like I can't or I shouldn't, or looking at the perspective of others. So stop complaining if it's hard. That's true. God never promised it was going to be easy. And so when you're complaining about the heat, when it's summertime and you live at the beach, maybe you should move, right?
Like, this is a very simple example, but stop complaining about things that you may in fact have control. And if there is no control and you're complaining, you're creating a roadblock for yourself. So think about the complaints. Can you change them? Can you say yes to movement? So that that detour is no longer in your way.
Number two, quit worrying. Golly. We know that there are so many scriptures aligned to us worrying about tomorrow. When there are their own worries for today. And yet if we create a relationship with God, if we create a prayer life where our faith, our mustard seed of faith, proceeds our faith. We don't have to worry.
And ultimately, if you think about worrying, you have an opportunity in that worry and opportunity to evolve and opportunity to become. Cause when I'm scared about something, when I'm stressed over something or worried about something, whether it's in motherhood, whether it's in my marriage, whether it's in my entrepreneurial path, I realized that there is an opera Trinity and that worry to either fill in the game.
Where there is a supporting structure that helps hold me, hold me to the call of motherhood, marriage entrepreneurship. Those are just three examples off the top of my head, either bringing in forces of other people, bringing in extra knowledge, bringing in extra hands. If I worry, I am just quitting because I'm sitting in fear instead of faith, number three, quit comparing.
We know that comparison is a trap. We hear it all the time. We know that it's also that thief of joy comparison is a thief of joy. They say you're on Instagram scrolling. You're on Facebook scrolling. You're on YouTube scrolling. You're on Tik TOK, scrolling. You're in life with your eyes, scanning and scrolling, and it's never good enough.
Nothing is good enough. No false identity can help soothe your soul. And so yet you compare what you see in the mirror, what accolades you have on your resume. What's your bank account says what your car is that you drive, what your vacations look like. What's your wardrobe look like. And all God cares about is the inside of your heart.
And so if we stop concerning ourselves with the exterior and we start concerning ourselves with the interior comparison becomes obsolete because we all have a mind. We all have a soul, we all have a body. We all have. And ultimately that heart condition is more important than anything else. So stop comparing, get in tune with yourself.
The heart that still beats today has purpose and therefore quitting is not an option. Number four, number four way to quit. Your quit is to quit lying about your capable. I kind of alluded to this in the complaining of I can't. And so this really leans into the ability piece, your capability, you can, are you willing to try because trying and doing are two different things.
Trying gives you an out. I'll try to do that today. I'll try to make that contact. I'll try to be better in this specific area of life. I'll try, but try is already giving you an opportunity to saying didn't work out. It's already giving you an opportunity for plan B plan C plan D planning. What if plan a is your only option you don't get to try.
You have to do you have to show up to the call. That's exactly what God is in the great commission. He's not giving us an outlet. He's not saying it'd be really nice. If you he's saying you must, we have to, this is the one thing we're called to do. And so stop quitting based on your capability. You're lying saying you can't.
I see it every day. It's an opportunity to rise to the occasion when your allies will inhibit you from doing that and number five, quit the cant. Hmm. They're kind of all lined. Quit lying that you can't because you can't quit. Because if you're telling yourself before you even get started, you're sitting on a dream.
I see this all the time, and this is why this is separate than line. Cause quit Quitline could be, I'm not good enough. I'm not worthy enough. I'm not capable enough. All of those things are lies because biblically we know that they're true. So the can't in number five, I had to make it its own. Is the fact that if you say that you're right, you're, you're telling yourself that you can't.
And so you can't, but when you tell yourself that you can't, you will, I can be a millionaire. I can live on the. I can love my husband harder. I can be a better mom. Right? We can. And so we will, and so affirmations are so critical. And I just want you to understand that if you keep saying I can't, you're going to be like many of the community members who've come to me in their fifties, in their sixties.
And they say, I don't feel capable. I don't feel like I can. I can't figure out the time. Yes, you can. If you've gotten this far in life, if you've been an employee or an employer for 60 years and tech just, wasn't a part of it, you can figure it out. First off, YouTube, second up. There's a younger generation that can do this with their eyes closed and their hands tied behind their back.
They'll figure it out with their nose. Their toe will squirrel. Right. It's the knowing that somebody can, and therefore, if you put it in your own isolation, I'm in my own glass box and therefore none of these things can come fruition again. You're right. You've quit and trapped yourself in a box. If you break the glass ceiling, if you get out of the box, if you step out of the Hulu that we often surround ourselves, our little bubbles and we ask for help.
The camp becomes can, because I might not be able to yet I will become whether somebody trains me. It's the whole reason that I'm a coach. Right. I don't like when people say I can't. And so I teach them how you partner with people who already get it, who already understand, and it arises your ability so that you can, so number six is to quit hesitating.
Oh my there's so many difficult revelations. We hesitate all the time. Imagine you were given the opportunity and you were the one in the boat. When Jesus called you to step out and stand on the water. I can only see you now because I've put myself in this situation so many times I would hesitate. Do I need a towel?
How far are we going? How long are we going to be gone? Should I have a snack before I get out of the boat, we would be hesitating just in what is our fleshly idea of need? But he says, I will provide all things unto him. Who believes in me, we will bear fruit in our lives if we trust. But our hesitation is ultimately a can't I'm hesitating because I don't have enough right now.
Guess what? You'll never have enough. If you don't activate stop hesitating number seven, seven is the number of completion, right? And this is on seven ways to quit. Quit quitting after you lose, quit quitting after the L what if super bowl champs? What if pro athletes at the Olympics? What if our children, I want to give you a span.
What if a toddler, a Wadler, if you will try to walk and they fell the first time. No, can't do it. You're out. What if the athlete, whomever, it is fell off the balance beam during one of their meats and they didn't get back up and later becomes a gold medalist. I think about Kerri strug and how she did it with a broken ankle.
Right. It's the knowing that you can, but if you quit after you lose, you're never learning from the loss. You're never growing to become better. You're never practicing to get the gold and the goal or the gold wealth or, or the accolade, whatever it is. I hear people all the time. I want to be a New York time.
Best. Then what I want to claim the goal and I want to get the victory. I want to have the million dollars in my bank. Okay. Then what if we live our lives only on a goal. When we get to the goal, we, we claim the thing, even if it's good, even if it's great, even if you worked really hard to get there and then you got to it and then you gave up, is that what you're actually going to do when you claim the victory?
It's no different when you claim the loss grow from it, learn, it creates wisdom for the other people who are going to come after you. I don't like when people quit. I see it too often. And so this is for you to get off your tush, get out of the boat, say yes to the God dream, say yes to the calling. Don't quit in the process.
It is hard. I get it. I can pray with you over it. I can in like instill, continued progress over perfection because as you progress, he professed. His will his mission over your life was is the grandiose mission. The great commission say yes today. We need you. I need you. Okay.